Want to be the best man or girl at cunnilingus? It can be one of the most wonderful things you can do for a woman. It makes her feel loved, admired, sexy, and has the potential to give her an exceptional orgasm. There is little more exciting to a woman than to know that her partner finds her delicious; meaning that you enjoy the taste, smell and feeling of her vaginal juices. At the same time, there is little less exciting to a woman than to think that you don’t like the taste and smell of her most intimate region.

If your partner has a smell that is more than you can handle, or she doesn’t feel comfortable with you down there (thinking you won’t like the smell), suggest taking a nice hot shower or bath together.

Remember, there is almost nothing you can do that will feel bad (so long as you are gentle), so relax! Any licking and sucking of the labia, vaginal entrance, clitoris, or anal area should feel great to your partner. Also, once you find something that works, don’t stray too far away from it unless you are moving to something that works better, or if you are teasing.

Personaly I like a man to be a bit unshaven, but your girly might hate that. If you dont know, ASK!!
Slowly lick up her thighs and kiss her vulva. Spread her legs and open her lips with your fingers. Take a look. Tell her how beautiful she looks.

Use your tongue. Your whole tongue. Flatten it out. Use just the tip. Lick her like an ice cream cone. Flick it like a butterfly wings. Use gentle strokes. As her excitement builds, add more pressure. Focus more on the area around her clit.

How to tell if she likes it: If she raises her hips to meet your lips, that is good. If her vagina gets wet and her vulva swells, she's getting aroused. If she starts moaning and trembling, keep doing what you're doing. Rapid breathing and writhing around are good things. If she grabs your hair and pushes you in for more, things are definitely going well.

Take her clitoris in your mouth. Suck gently. Release. Gentle flicking can send her over the edge.
Use your hands. Place your hands under her butt and gently lift her towards your mouth. Reach up and stroke her nipples.

Put a finger in her vagina or her anus.

Leaving your tongue soft try licking her from the opening of her vaginal entrance up to her clit and following the outer edges of her hole along both sides. Repeating this technique going up and down and vice versa can be a great opener.

While holding the two parts together with your lips, run your tongue between the inner and outer labia one side at a time.

Give her a tongue fuck! Get your tongue into her vag. Techniques are pretty limited due to the length of your tongue, but try moving your tongue in and out, as well as in circles around the inside of her opening.

This is my personal favourite, Spread her outer lips with your fingers. With your tongue pointed, gently flick your tongue around her clitoris. Feel free to roam, but keep coming back to her clitoris, as it is the most sensitive. This drives some women wild, and others find it to too intense. When stimulating her clit make sure to start out gently if you aren’t sure how she likes it. When you try this, pay attention to whether those moans are ecstasy or pain.

Dont start this bit until she is really hot (i.e.,dripping). These are more intense techniques, and may be too intense for some women, even when nearing orgasm.
Expose her clit by spreading her lips and lightly pull back her hood. With her clit exposed, give it a quick little suck; pulling it into your mouth briefly and letting it go.

This is a lot like licking a bit of cake batter off of your finger. This feels incredible, and is a fine thing to do if you feel like tormenting her – but don’t overdo it! Do not use your teeth nor using heavy suction when starting out.

Take her exposed clit into your mouth and gently suck on it, simultaneously flicking your tongue over and around it. This can be done very lightly or very aggressively, and combined with fingering, will usually rapidly produce an intense orgasm.

Roll your tongue into a tube. Roll your tongue into a tube around her clitoris. Slide it back-and-forth; in effect, your tongue is doing something similar to a woman's vagina around a man's penis. This is likely to bring any woman over the edge to an explosive orgasm.
Try using your tongue to spell the alphabet on her genitals.

This works surprisingly well as your tongue is always moving in different directions. Learn her favorite letters and the orders that work the best! A good lover’s hands never stop moving, so keep exploring, insert a finger, or massage her thighs while you perform.

Having a mint in your mouth while you are performing cunnilingus can also improve your results. The mint, as long as it is not too weak or strong, can create a very intense tingling sensation to enhance your performance.

What ever you do and however you do it, there is one golden rule if you want to keep her happy, when you find what she really, really likes, keep doing it and then slow down and then do it again. But never stop. She will loose it and you will have to start all over again. Lesbian sex is great for women because they spend time, that’s what all men need to know.

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